Confession time. I have been married (to a woman) for nearly a decade. Despite that, I still have no idea how to talk to girls. My wife and I met on a dating app, and my initial message to her basically said, "Hey, I noticed your head is resting on something in all of your photos, is something wrong with your neck?" Somehow that got me a date. So as far as I know, the way to pick up girls is to say something really dumb and catch them off guard.

I do go to the gym regularly, and I see jacked dudes all the time, but there are very few jacked women. There are lots of reasons for that I'm sure, biology being one. But one thing that does strike me as weird is that I know of multiple female regulars who are small in terms of muscle mass that lift weights every time I see them, but have made no visible progress over the course of many months. I don't notice that with dudes. If a small dude becomes a regular, I see progress. Every time. Their weights get heavier and their muscles get at least a bit larger. Not so with these women. They continue to lift very light weight and I don't know why.

I rarely start these posts with any thought as to where I'm going to go, and this turned into a pointless ramble, so I'm going to bail out now.

- Management